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Sarah Davison-Tracy, devoted human rights advocate, founder of Seeds of Exchange, and author of “Live Ablaze” and “Soulfully Ablaze,” discusses the importance of grace, joy and love as we work to transform ourselves and our culture. Sarah reveals her work with the Badi Caste in Nepal, the importance of being Lights for each other, and cultivating the essence of enthusiasm and charisma as we weave the texture and fabric of our everyday lives. She also shares the importance of “Places of Pause” (POPs) in our day-to-day lives.
More at: yonearth.org/podcast, seedsofexchange.org, and sarahdavisontracy.com
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Hi friends, welcome to another edition of the YonEarth Community Stewardship and
Sustainability Podcast series.
And today I am so thrilled to have with us our guest Sarah Davison-Tracy.
Hi Sarah.
Hey guys.
Good to be here.
Welcome.
And Sarah, whether she’s traveling the globe or nestled in the backyard of her home in
Colorado with her husband and two beloved children, Sarah is a devoted human rights advocate
and author, a public speaker and the founder of Seeds of Exchange, which we’ll be talking
about a bit more.
And Sarah, welcome to the show.
So wonderful having you here and really appreciate you joining our conversation.
Oh, I’ve been looking forward to it since the moment I woke up.
This is awesome.
Beautiful.
Well, I would love to start by asking you, I know you have such a deep connection in
fondness for this Colorado area and that you are also doing a lot of work with people
in the Himalayas, specifically in the Nepal area.
And just wondering, could you just speak to how that moves you, how that moves your heart
and what you notice working in these different places really on opposite sides of the globe
if you will?
Yeah, well, I for sure love the backdrop that we have here for our conversation with
the mountains.
It’s a beautiful focal point for what we’re talking about.
So I love that you started with that question, Aaron, because I have always been super keenly
interested in these ideas of both Anne, the local and the global.
As you mentioned, Denver and halfway around the world in the Himalayas.
And there’s a sweet spot that I love to find of celebrating and observing the things that
are profoundly different in the ecology and the culture and the language and the food
and the people and, you know, all kinds of things and finding those things to celebrate,
which I do because Nepal is home to many people that I actually consider not just friends
but like my family and so it really feels like a second home.
I got a video from them this morning and they were just in my friends that were working
in their office and I could hear like the horns and the background and I could picture
the rickshaws and the motorcycles and it just was like it brought to your smile because
that’s how I feel about that place in these people.
But the other both Anne is, while being very different in all those things that I mentioned,
ever since I was a kid I’ve been profoundly eager, curious and really committed to find
the threads of profound similarity of things that are similar in surprising ways between
people and what I find is there’s a sense of what matters to people’s hearts, like what
are the things that they hope for themselves and for their children and they’re not so different
between Denver and the Himalayas and so I love being a part of that conversation and
that life with them.
It’s so beautiful.
Well, one of the things that probably comes most to mind when I think about you and I
think about the work that you’re doing is that it is so heart-centered and in my humble
opinion that’s something in our culture in particular that we could use a whole lot
more of and honestly probably just need, I’ll just say that and I’m so struck by how
you work with those threads and keeping that heart-centric focus through, you recently
published books, Live ablaze and light up the world and then it’s companion, soulfully
ablaze, a 40-day journey to light up your life and the world and I am just, I’m so thrilled
by the energy and the enthusiasm that you’ve managed to capture and put into book form
which is no small task as we both know and there’s just so much heart gushing forth from
those works and from all that you’re doing and I want to ask you, where does that come
from?
What is the source of that wellspring of love and energy and encouragement that you’re
sharing with people?
Wow.
A lot of questions.
So it comes to mind is this poem from my sacred text, one of my favorite sacred texts
in my personal sacred text, the Bible where it talks about who cannot wait to come up,
come upon every day and find beauty.
Here’s what you do and it lifts us all these things and it has to do with community, it
has to do with what we eat, it has to do with what we fill our vision with and for me
that has to do with media and my little people, my two kids that I pick up and drop off
at school every day and they just fill my hearts with love and with passion and with
compassion and for sure for me, God, my sacred connection to the mysterious unseen is
a big part of what shores me up on the hard days and what fuels me on the good and the
hard days, I guess.
But for sure, Aaron, the big other pieces, community and connection, whether that’s my
beloveds in my home, my neighbors, my soul friends, strangers on the street, I’m finding
more and more joy in just connecting with people as I go about my every day that I
mean only see one time and that really fills me up and I’m always looking for ways to
share it and receive it as I go about my days.
Well, as a friend and a colleague, you really strike me as a person who excels at living
that way of being day to day, which is where that can actually be challenging and perhaps
we might even say where that is most needed, that practice and Sarah, you do that.
And I know you bring enormous smiles to so many people every day, locally and around
the world.
And I just want to thank you for that.
Thank you for doing that work in our communities and thank you for living that example for us.
I think that that is perhaps one of the most potent things we can be exploring and sharing
with one another throughout our communities is how do we live this way of being.
And in this exploration where you really play with a lot of these polarities and explore
a lot of these dualities, I’m so struck by how you approach being on the one hand and
doing on the other and can you just share with us what that is for you?
Yeah, I would say my life until now has been a journey of exploration into those two
pieces, polarities, dualities, both ends of contemplation and action and solitude and
community.
And so for me, I see that place of being still, of being, of finding things that when
it’s just me in the car in the morning, at the end of the day, finding rhythms that
really fuel and sustain, like me from this like cellular inside soul place out.
And so for me, I write about, I have these in live ablaze, I have 10 and so hopefully
I have 40 of these, I call them places of pause or pops that are like punctuated spaces
throughout all of these incredible stories and invitations to, you know, pay attention
to our lives and pay attention to each other and because I had this epiphany as I was writing
the book that came to me in my everyday life, thinking I had come home from a movie and
I had this moment where I thought, man, if I don’t pay attention to the things that brought
tears to my eyes during this movie, to the thing that made my heart beat really fast during
that one part in the movie, then it’s just going to be another thing I have consumed.
Just going to be, I’m just going to move on to the next thing and I thought I need a place
of pause to think and pay attention and listen and learn.
And so the next morning when I got up to write my book, I thought this book needs a place
of pause, regularly punctuated through it, that I believe the places of pause or being,
as you say, is going to be different for each of us because we all get filled up and
fields differently, but I do believe that there’s something about a level of quiet or
of stillness that we can still be thought in our head, the input, you know, the speed,
the things come at us visually and through auditory messaging and pay attention to the
treasure that our souls and that our hearts, as you speak, heartfelt people, it’s just
life and good and in the direction that so much of us are looking for is just like there
in those quiet places of pause.
So that’s the one piece of being still and then I just profoundly believe that when
the activism and the service and the being love and the kind of big outer expressions
of our life when it’s fueled from these regular rhythms of filling up in these quiet rhythms
in our life, I believe it’s sustainable, it’s more powerful because it’s more connected
to who we are and to people around us and I don’t think being still in a soulful way
very often stays in a solitude sort of place.
I think our hearts and our souls always help us to connect with our destiny and loving
and serving and connecting with each other, so I just see them as like inextricably connected.
It’s so beautiful and I’m so struck by your use of language around the treasure and actively
cultivating these places of stillness in our day-to-day lives and you know, I, reflecting
as you were talking on the chapters I wrote, listening, connecting, why on earth that especially
in our culture right now with technology and all of the busyness, there’s almost this irony
that emerges where making the time and space for those pops, those places of pause where we
can do more listening on different levels, connect in different ways to the divine, to the incredible
majesty of creation all around us, that actually requires a certain action on our part.
There’s almost a certain willfulness that we have to cultivate in order to open those
spaces of receptivity up and you really, I think, speak to the sort of irony or perhaps you
might even say joyful humor in the polarity that shows up there. Totally, that is so beautiful
and I love that connection you made, 100% with, yeah. Well, as you’re talking, it reminds me of
St. Francis, right? And I happened to be rereading the book St. Francis by Kazan Zakis just
cracked it open a couple days ago and this whole notion of experiencing the divine, you know,
not to get into a protractive dogmatic discussion about what is and isn’t where the rules and boundaries
lie this, that and the other, but that we as humans, it seems, have such a marvellous opportunity
to connect with an experience of divinity in our day-to-day lives and in the, let’s say,
mundane, which in its etymological roots means of the earth, you know, and I think that you
really exhibit this, Sarah, in your writings and in the work that you’re doing and especially the
the work that you’re doing with a very diverse group of people all around the world that there
is such an embrace of the divinity within this imminent reality. 100, yes, like everything in me,
and I, I’ve been contemplating so much for a couple of years. The very thing you’re talking about
of, like, what’s the texture and the fabric of our everyday lives, like each of us, and every day
as we were talking earlier, like, every day is one word, but in my mind, I picture every is all
past because it’s like the biggest part of our lives, right? So how we feel when we wake up in the
morning and and how we go about whatever work it is that we’re doing during the day, and I’ve been
thinking so much about what are the pieces, what are the seeds that are planted in our lives that make
for the mundane, the everydayness of life, to have that, like, texture of grace and joy and peace and
love, all of these things that I think are souls long for, and I believe there are times that I have
gone after so many things in the hopes of those things that have just created a frenetic and
overwhelmed mundane or everyday life, instead of this texture of fullness, and, like, I call,
I kind of picture it as like a cup that’s full to the brim with, you know, cool sparkling water,
you know, that’s fueling and saturating my day, and I’ve practiced yoga a lot for much
as my life, and I love it because the teachers that I love talk about, like, how you get to the
pose or how you get through a practice, you’re going to finish the practice probably no matter what,
right, you’re going to go to the studio of the street or watch the video and be done in a half
hour, an hour, and kind of check it off your list, but the experience of it is the mundane,
is what you’re talking about, like, the experience of it can be fundamentally different, it can be
graced and full of wonder and awe and curiosity and ease, or it can be, like, struggle and
art and forcing, and I know both of those very well, which is why I’ve been so committed to
practicing it and talking about it and bringing that message whenever I can to people because it’s
a really different way, those two ways are very different. Absolutely, there’s so much, so much in
that, and, you know, I know that you are very open about sharing some of your own experiences around
the pain of wondering and worrying and doubting and individual worth and that you have, you carry
this insight with you that we, we each hold so much preciousness in ourselves in this world.
And I know that many of the people you work with have their own stories of incredible struggle and
hardship and especially with some of these beautiful souls that you’re working with in Nepal and you
guys are, I know, working on another new book that’s underway and I’m so excited about it.
What, what is it that you might want to share with our audience about that, that pain of
wondering and worrying and when we’re in that place, what we might bring into our awareness that
will help us get to that place of grace and overflowing cups of cool sparkling water and so forth.
Right, right, because there is that gap in our human experience, at least in my experience.
So I would say a couple of things. First of all, you know, for me,
a moment that comes to mind of the worrying and the wondering if I had a place on the planet,
if I had a life that was really, I wanted my life to matter. From the time I was born, I remembered
thinking like, what am I going to do and how am I going to do it? And there were times that that
fueled me with curiosity and energy and there were times that that fueled me with angst and
like grip of like, where am I going to go to college and where am I going to live and I don’t have
any idea how to make the impact that I’m dreaming of making and that I feel is planted in my heart.
And I, in that gap that you just picture this raise, there was a lot of pain for me of doubts and of
anxiety and worry that I didn’t have a place on this mighty big planet of ours. And for me, it came
to like, I talk about it at the life and death place because in my early 20s, I believe that
seed of doubt and worry was planted and grew without my, without my awareness such that I almost
died because I had the addiction of anorexia in my early 20s. And I believe the roots of the
addiction were in this thing that you’re talking about, in this like trying to fix and control and
plan and in the worry and all of the things that you brought up, I wasn’t vigilant about doing
battle with and talking with my community about and the thing, man, I am, I don’t feel much worth
or value. I’m a, I’m in a fog and I’m afraid and I’m kind of lost. And so I, I became isolated
and addicted. And so for me, happy to share with anyone that that connects with because it’s of course
a big long story with a happy ending because I am alive here and now. But it was, it was a day-to-day
and a nail-biter for a little bit because I was so stuck in the fog and in the darkness. And so for
me, because of that personal experience, I, it is like for me now that I have come out of that,
I know how dark that night is. Some, some folks call it the dark night of the soul.
And I know how crushing that is to a spirit and to our thoughts and it just affects everything
to our actions. And so for me, it’s like right next to that pain that my passion and commitment
and mission to do what I do in the world has grown because and it has led me to be a part of
anti-trafficking endeavors and they call in India and other parts of Asia. It’s led me to partner
with people in Africa that are doing amazing women’s and community empowerment projects among those
that have been pushed to the margins and that are themselves in a fog and in the dark night of
the soul. And I believe that when we work together, it brings some light into that dark night.
And we are the light for each other. I believe that with all my heart, there are times that
the night is too dark in me and I need a light from someone else and, um,
things for, for other people. So I just, I love looking at how we can be light
and warrior together. It’s so beautiful, Sarah. Thank you so much for sharing that with us.
And for sharing your light and bringing so much light to so many people, it’s awesome. It really
is. It’s beautiful. Thank you. I want to pause there. We’ll take a little place of pause and
just remind our audience and listeners that this is the Y on Earth communities stewardship and
sustainability podcast series. And we are talking with Sarah Davis and Tracy. And for our
audience and listeners, want to be sure to mention we have very special deals for you on the website
Y on Earth dot org slash market. If you use the code podcast, you can get some great discounts on
audio books, ebooks, et cetera. And if you would like to learn more about the work Sarah is doing,
please go to seedsofexchange.org and or Sarah Davis and Tracy.com will have spelling, et cetera,
in the show notes. And we also have a couple of very specific calls to action. You can buy Sarah’s
books, liver blaze, and soulfully ablaze the companion. You can join seeds of exchange,
bitly slash seeds.com. And you can support some of Sarah’s rolling projects of philanthropy for
others. And right now there is a very special campaign to help a young lady, Ashama,
go to college. And so we are helping do some fundraising for that effort. And Sarah, could you
just tell us a little about Ashama and about what this was for her and her community?
Yeah. Yeah. So Ashama was born in India in a brothel because her mom had been
was a slave there for 10 years. And her mama and 23 kids were a part of an incredibly
epic and dangerous rescue effort at the end of 2015. And so she has been back in school and
has a gift and a magic in her intelligence, it seems, because she has been catching up and making
up for last time. She’s in school and a school run by an NGO partner of ours Lighthouse Foundation.
And she just took her tasks at the end of high school and came out like at the top of the country
at in terms of her marks. And so now she’s going to college. And they reached out to us and said,
hey, do you think you guys could help us with her first year of college for her tuition and
it’s actually tuition and everything. And so we’ve got a matching grant for $900. So we’re
looking to generate $900 more, which seems like a scream and deal, by the way, for a year of college,
right? For her, that’s her next epic leap. And what I love about this Aaron is it’s just a picture
for me of the dreams that are planted in us that sometimes we can only get so far without a little
bit of support from our community. And I believe that’s the best in the worst news about a connected
and communal life. And I believe that that’s a gift for us because it keeps us connected to each
other literally because our lives end on it. And hers does. And she’s going to change the world.
She already is. And I’m excited for us to be able to be world changers with her.
Beautiful Sarah. And so we can support by going to Bentley slash a Shama back to school.
And we’ll make sure that’s in the show notes as well. That’s what a beautiful story.
What an incredible story. Yeah.
Tell us a little more about the communities in the Paul that you’re working with. There’s
so much there I know it’s an incredibly rich fabric of relationships. But I would love for you to
describe for us what that looks like. Yeah. So the community that I’m deeply connected to and
really passionate about working with that I’m working on this book with that you mentioned
a minute ago. They’re called the body. It’s called B-A-D-I. The body cast of Nepal. And for those
familiar with cast it is illegal but it is very much an operation on a speaking of mundane
everyday level. It affects who people can where people can live who they can eat with what
pads they can walk on where they can drink water whether they can go to school and on and on and on
and so this cast of body they it is actually translated in Nepal in musical people.
So for many years they were the they were the artists for the kings and the kings courts.
They were the dancers and the singers and the poets and the makers of beautiful things.
But over time it degenerated into them the women the body women being seen as these sexualized
objects for pleasure and only that. And so for several generations now when born a body woman
your one work it is not a choice it is not for some and for others your one work is to have sex
with men and women are kept in their villages and literally men will crawl into their windows at
night and it can be an uncle and it can be a stranger. It is literally a fair game for anyone
and some are trafficked. They are targeted to be trafficked out of Nepal and to Bhopal
Strasia a lot in India and like the key about this and why I believe it has gone on for as long
as it has is because they are on the margins and the outskirts of society and so there has
it has been invisible and thousands and thousands of these girls literally disappear
every year and they are not when when born these girls don’t have birth certificates so literally
they don’t exist. So what’s been happening and happily in the last decade or so is this mighty
cultural shift among this people that started with two friends of mine that began a school and
Kathmandu a boarding school that they invited girls and boys because they believe in elevating
the value of you know both boys and girls the community itself and and we hear all the time about
the power of education and this has been a picture of that for me of what happens when a when a
girl in a boy learns about the world and about the constructs that have made life for certain
gender many generations appear in a certain way they don’t have to continue that way so they
literally it’s like watching this mighty tectonic plate just shift and these this generation I mean
they are going to school for the elementary secondary a couple of them are going to college
for the first time Ashama is one her big sister is the first land-owning body woman in the history
of Nepal she just bought land a couple months ago yeah brings tears to my eyes I mean that’s after
10 years of hard work you know saving up as a teacher so what’s happening among these people is
they’re saying you know what we are we are not going to wait for someone else to elevate us we are
going to elevate ourselves and we are going to tell our stories without shame and it’s a shame-based
culture but I believe humanity is shame based if we’re not careful and they are like no we are not
going to live with shame we’re going to tell our stories so that’s why they asked me to help them
craft this story of brutal human rights struggles and unbelievable healing and restoration and like
light blazing from a mountaintop stories and so the reason that I love telling it and the reason
I love being a part of it is because I believe in these stories there are gems for each of us
to explore and connect with our own and and that’s the fun yes fun yeah there’s such a profound
connection between our own individual healing yeah and our ability to help heal in community
on the planet and I think Sarah your your journey and your story really speaks to that
that’s humbling and thank you yeah thank you how else in addition to helping Ashama with her
college tuition cabinet how else can we get involved and help support and stay connected to
this work that you’re doing yeah I will just please put my email in the in the show notes because
one of my favorite things is I see one of the pictures of my work do you remember Aaron ever
like doing those dot to dot you know pictures that as a kid or maybe you’re stunned you know
doing those pictures were at first on the paper all you see is dots and they’re numbered
and then over time all of a sudden like a rainbow it’s a rainbow or you know a house or whatever
and so I see our humanity our community to be like this dot to dot picture and I love
so what I would say to to listeners is if you feel something going off in your heart or tears
come to your eyes as when you heard Aaron or myself say something please stay attention to that
and please ping me via email and and tell me what it is because if there’s any one or any way
I can help kind of I believe we kind of like get to poor fuel on each other’s fires and the fan
thing so I that is one invitation of because there’s infinite ways that that can show up I have
great ideas and connections for folks that want to take their next vacation and have it be a really
cool community engaged trip with friends from around the world I I just I know so many amazing
people that I love to connect folks with depending on their interests so yeah that would be my
number one thing beautiful great well and just to mention the email your email is Sarah at seeds
of exchange dot org and it’s Sarah with an h s a r a h yeah seeds of exchange dot org and thank
you for that invitation I I am excited to know that we’ll be seeing more of these dots getting
connected right as a result I want to ask you a question shifting gears just a hair
in these final few minutes of our discussion as a a fellow crafts person with the written and spoken
word a poet or writer what have you I am so struck by your use of language particularly in written
form and especially the way in which you’re using capitalization throughout text it’s an
unusual way to to see I think written English at this point it really jumps out it really stands out
and I think it really shows your enthusiasm and charisma and how how the heck did you get to that
as as a mode of creative expression I’m laughing because I remember some moments because these are
my first two books and they were published side by side simultaneously and I remember the first
moment my editor saying like do we really need to do this are you sure are you sure because she’s
like because I know that I know it’s intentional but I don’t know if people are going to see it
at attention oh my goodness this is second so sorry people the dog the dog has spoken the dog speaking
of punctuation she’s punctuated our call so everyone this is my dog Maisie hi there we’re all
outside the window that’s teasing her so for example the word encouragement yes not until I
I played with writing that out just in an email that I realized the word courage is in there and
and when I think about a word encouragement was just what I believe is one of our calls as community
members with each other it’s like cheerleading and shining the spotlight on each other and spreading
the word like the word courage is planted right inside of it I was like we have to make sure that
like I just love discovering that and I thought there’s certain words words words within the words
really add to the power and the beauty and the invitation and the action of that word and so
yeah so I just in for me to go back to your mundane everyday point that we were talking about
earlier for me it’s like a way that we get to play with our language in our everyday lives and
bring beauty and impact and surprise and curiosity and so I do it in my emails and in my texts and
this is kind of fun yes you do and it is yes well on that note I want to encourage all of our
listeners and audience to check out your books check out your website get involved send Sarah an
email and I’m gonna end with this note of encouragement one of the things I love about that word
of course is is collage courage comes from this root word meaning heart and Sarah thank you so
much for your heart for sharing your heart with us with so many and especially thank you for
joining us for this discussion today I’m so glad to be here it’s been an honor
beautiful okay with my friends
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